The World’s Best Ideology: Love And Friendship

Here is something that some consider to be a bold request: Do not quarrel with people who only attach importance to your ideology. Do not think that someone is more distant from you just because you do not share a belief in a subject.

Do not get entangled in endless discussions with people who only care about demonstrating that their opinion is the only right one or that their thoughts on a topic are more important. Do not build a wall of mistrust towards people who have not seen your soul just because you think their ideas may threaten yours.

Do not destroy a true friendship that has not caused any harm in your life just because the person has ideas about life that are different from yours. It’s not worth it. While you waste time and energy protesting and being filled with resentment, you miss the fact that those who create these divisions actually offer new opportunities with a smile.

The best ideology and the best way to understand the world is one that is based on the love and affection you give to the people who pass through your life.

Maybe you have a view of the world that goes against another person’s. But if you love and respect others, and if you enjoy the company of the people who make your life brighter, you should consider whether it is really worth destroying this for an invisible hole that creates distance between you and these people.

There is a very common mistake that almost everyone makes when it comes to communication. This mistake is to think and believe that all the words you hear are actually true and that the person who said them did so with honesty from the heart. It is easy to forget that in reality they are just words that pass their lips, and do not necessarily come from the heart.

Sometimes you will even say something without thinking or expressing an ignorant opinion because you think you simply have to say your opinion about something to define yourself. It is common to believe that by doing this we will be seen in a better light by the people around us.

You may sometimes even mistake simple words and gestures for a statement of purpose or with the will to be hurtful. Maybe you personify everything you hear and include other people’s opinions in your own perception of life.

It is necessary to talk and share a variety of topics with friends. It is good to be close to your intellect with the opinions of others. This sharing can also be therapeutic, help you get rid of stress and let you see the truth from other perspectives.

Having a real conversation is an art that should not degenerate into quarrels, especially not if the person is someone you love and appreciate. If a misunderstanding occurs, it can always be sorted out with the correct pitch. It can be solved by listening and never forcing on anyone your personal opinion.

Sometimes the line that separates simple conversation and an actual quarrel can be crossed. Each time this happens to someone you love, your relationship with that person will become more and more distant. In reality, you should always remember the idea that words blow away in the wind. Only actions and real events show the person’s real intentions and life values.

You may even find yourself in a situation where you are attacking someone you love for something he has said, while in reality the person has repeatedly demonstrated the exact opposite with his behavior and actions. From your point of view, it may feel like this person is betraying you because of what he or she is saying, but he or she has never let you down with his or her actions.

Although everyone can be seduced by an idea or by the thoughts of others, none of these things can offer true love and comfort; This is because the sincere words of understanding can only be uttered by someone who truly loves you.

There is no idea that you can call at any time of the day or night because you are sad. No ideology can speak to you to help you calm down. No ideology can try to understand what you mean by crying in your throat and tears on your cheeks.

No ideology can replace the real and warm embrace of your mother when you come home after being away for a long time. No ideology or school of thought can replace a kiss and the comforting look of the person you love.

So before you lose someone you love in the name of ideology, think about what in reality makes you strong, lucky and happy… before it’s too late.