Many Want To Love You For Who You Are, Others Envy You
Many people will love you for who you are, others will envy you for the same reason. Envy shows its ugly snout from time to time, and we have to get used to this because it often characterizes the dynamics of our relationships when it is we who are successful in something.
It is impossible for us to like everyone and for everyone to like us. From this point of view, we must be aware that the light we radiate is often not pleasant for some people. For the great things that make us who we are are exactly what causes gloom in others. These people will probably wrestle with hidden desires in their lives that they somehow think they have been denied.
The true guardian angels are the people who at certain times in our lives appear and give us light, which makes us shine and eliminates the abysses that cloud and hide our true selves, or those that do not do our virtues justice.
At this point, it is not just words that matter, but facts. They surround us with their magic and scatter our reality with their wonders, which makes us see how much we are worth just when it seems that we have forgotten where the ON button for our life is.
We all have a light, something that touches us and makes us special, something that gives us the ability to offer the world something special. There will be people who are good at their job, who can love in a special way and those who have more than one skill, which really makes them unique.
But as we have said, there are always individuals who do not want to love you for who you are, but turn off that light, that which makes you “special” and that defines you, because they envy you. Sometimes it will be difficult for us to deal with, but ONLY WE CAN GIVE VALIDITY TO THE INTENTIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE IN OUR LIVES.
Envy is not 100% unhealthy, as long as it does not involve harmful acts against others (or ourselves). When it’s healthy, it can lead us to what we really want. In this way, it gives us clues about the path we want to take.
But envy becomes completely harmful if we give in to its enchantment and thus undermine our own self-esteem. This tends to make us fall into a trap of bad comparisons, and sometimes we turn this greed into an ugly attack that wants to captivate the target of our secret admiration.
Envy is something that is intertwined with other emotions, such as hatred, and is directed at the person who shows up and reinforces this envy and these frustrations. This can condemn the talent and success of other people, generating behaviors that want to hurt others.
We tend to pay more attention to the motives of the jealousy of the jealous person rather than evaluating what it means for the person exposed to the jealousy. We must not forget the fact that they hate and envy you for what makes you shine, which creates great suffering that creates distance between you and reality, which generates mistrust.
It is no coincidence that people who stand out often feel lonely in a world where they are surrounded by people. It is therefore not surprising that you do not know how to distinguish between true friends, those who want something from you and those who envy you.
In the same way, this makes us even question whether our success or our light actually belongs to us or whether it is a mirage we do not deserve. This usually creates a long chain of uncertainties and regrets that can obscure our virtues. The harm that comes from jealousy can be overcome by reinforcing positive beliefs about ourselves. From this point of view, we must not forget that certain circumstances and events can always give rise to comparisons, but which should not overshadow us.
We must all enjoy our virtues without destroying others, pushing unhealthy envy aside and promoting what builds us up, which is simply our ability to admire and grow with others.
