I Like Married People Who Are Not Made Up

I like real people who do not deceive themselves or others. I also want to be that way. Living permanently in a lie just because I worry about “what others will say” just enslaves me. It serves no purpose other than to keep me from being happy. Life is so short; there is no logic in living a life that others dictate.

But I also like genuine people who help others with a respectful attitude; without looking over their shoulder, without judging, without whispering behind their backs. If we all pulled our straw, the world would surely be much better from this aspect.

I like real people who have learned to live without fear and who take the world by storm, no matter what the neighbors say behind their backs. I like them because they, without a doubt, show me that they are happy, and that is a life lesson for me.

And I? I have sometimes not been genuine and I may even have judged others, because I am human and make mistakes. But I have the ability to reflect on my mistakes, with others and myself. I know I should not hide; I have to show myself who I am. He who loves me loves me for who I am, and so it is.

I have also learned to rebuke myself, to say to myself on the inside: do not judge, let the world have its way, do not look at people in one way or another and treat everyone equally.

If you do not like someone, be polite, reprimand and let go. Try to make this world a better place with your attitude to the best of your ability, both in terms of your relationships and your respect for others.

Married people believe that the best gift they can give others and ultimately themselves is to be just themselves. Some characteristics that define them are:

• They are not afraid of “what others will say”. They took off the absurd mask a long time ago.
• They admit to themselves and others that they are not perfect.
• They know they are vulnerable.
• They do not care if they do away with themselves in front of a large group of people.

In contrast, people who judge others and who are focused on what other people think, think or feel, have lives that are characterized by the following:

• They usually do not show who they are. They are not genuine. They believe that they are perfect and that shortcomings are something that is experienced by the rest.
• They are often dissatisfied with their lives. They try to justify this by criticizing others.
• They are not critical of themselves.
• They do not have interests or activities that entertain them. They get bored and their hobby is to criticize others.
• They are often jealous. They talk about others and criticize them because everything they have deep inside them is jealous. Jealousy that does not harm others, but rather themselves.

These people have, for one reason or another – due to fear of rejection, fear of what others will say or revenge – have not yet managed to show who they really are. Only when you are yourself towards others and leave the old heavy backpack behind you, you will be able to see life with the happiness that was lost.