Do Not Let The Past Take Too Much From Today
There is a saying that there are two types of people in life. Those who place their books in order from the largest to the smallest and those who do not. Those who need 10 alarms to wake up and those who wake up with only one. Those who constantly look back on the past and those who constantly stick to the saying carpe diem.
The solution, however, is probably found, as Aristotle said, somewhere in the middle. The past should not be forgotten, no matter how bad you thought it was. And the day should be taken care of and you have to act sensibly and build things for tomorrow.
Do not let the past weigh you down
If you are a person who spends too much time worrying about the past instead of focusing on the present, start looking for a way to free yourself. When the past has overwhelmed us, it is very difficult to recover from all these bangs and look forward with courage.
Each of us has a past that can only be judged by ourselves. Maybe you have already noticed how the worst time of your life is easy for another person to get over and vice versa. We have all been in situations that have paralyzed us because we thought they were much more difficult than anything we can handle and yet we succeeded, and so can you.
Other times, negative events have not pushed us back. We have experienced such good moments that it is difficult for us to think that there can be anything better. But you are the only person who is able to take care of your life and create moments that make you happy in the present.
The present is a new opportunity
The present is your great opportunity. So the present becomes a change that gives your past the place it deserves and you open yourself up to new experiences.
The present is an ideal opportunity to meet new people who will enrich you as a person and give you the energy and life you want. It’s about no longer sitting where you felt comfortable before and instead taking advantage of a new chapter that helps you end those who have hurt you before.
Time heals all wounds from the past. It pushes you to forgive what you thought you could never forgive. It forces you to mourn what you have lost. It shows you the value of moments of happiness and it teaches you to look at the present and the future.
It is not necessary to lose sight of the past when changing things
When we talk about “leaving your past behind you”, we do not want you to interpret this as forgetting it. It is good to remember that you have a past. It’s your story that you should not lose. We just want to tell you that you can go back to it when you want to add something to the present.
It is important that the past does not take too much from the present because everything has its time and place. You should never forget the lessons you have learned from previous steps, but do not stop going.
The present has a great value because it is always an unformed stage that completely belongs to you. To avoid feeling like the day is empty, let it build up with you. Be who you really want to be and accept what you once were and no longer are.
